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Young Mum To Be

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Accession No: TWCMS : 2009.423
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Lynsey's story is about discovering she was pregnant and worrying about telling people.

By Lynsey Dixon


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I did two tests to make sure that I was pregnant, they both came back positive. I was so scared, shocked, and I cried.

The biggest challenge I have faced was how to tell people. I was thinking what am I going to say to my boyfriend? He knew that something was the matter, so when he asked, I told him I was pregnant. He was just standing there saying 'are you sure?', so I showed him the two tests. He went into shock.

The next challenge was telling our parents. There never seemed like a good time. Things got in the way like getting ready for the boxing show. I wanted to tell his family straight away but he told me not to, so I didn't. When we got home I still wanted to tell his family, but I couldn't so I left it to him.

When I went back home he told his parents. His parents were shocked and mad at the same time. All his family were shaking their heads, shouting and screaming at him.

When I was at home, just back from college, I sat down and my sister asked me what was wrong, so I told her that I was pregnant. She gave me a cuddle and told me everything was going to be ok. I asked her to tell mam. She did. My mam was fine, she told me 'don't be scared'.

But I was scared. I was worried about how I was going to cope, this would change my life forever.

The next few months were great - I loved going for my scans and hearing the heart beat. I had a feeling that I was going to have a little boy, and I was right. He was born on 17 May 2009.

Since he was born we have had our ups and downs; tiredness, sickness, and sleepless nights. But there are more ups than downs, my boy smiles, gurgles to himself, pulling funny faces. I like going to visit my family, playing with his cousins and friends.

I wouldn't have thought a year ago that my life would have changed so much - but I wouldn't change a thing.   

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